You're pulling up what i said and taking it out of context by the n'th degree
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Not wanting to sound like a lush but what my lady and i found was that hitting the bar REALLY helped with our confidence whilst learning. We're not talking totally rangooned but a couple of beers before jumping onto the slope really got us less stiff and far more commited to turns and also (as we slowly progressed) the kicker (at Xscape).
There are obvious side-effects such as the need for more toilet breaks, plus i guess there are health and safety issues with being slightly trollied on the ice but we found that the positives far out-weighed them